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About Richard Harrell

Connecting life, art, and the power of story in ways that change my world. I am a disciple-maker and lover of Jesus living in a small town in Georgia. I am also on a spiritual journey, looking for points in life that point me to new and full life in Christ Jesus.

Round-Abouts and Obeying God

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From the autostrada to my house, there is one stoplight and there are eleven round-abouts. Most people are familiar with the round-about way of negotiating intersections, but unless you face them each day, the negotiating can be tricky. Some are simply the “glance left and go” types of round-abouts. Others have three roads and six points of traffic entering, and looking front, left, beyond left and back to your right (to make sure a car behind you isn’t “cutting you off”) is a must.

There is a round-about in Torino that I hit occasionally with eight points of entrance and exit and three lanes around a central statue (most likely a version of Garibaldi.) Traffic is entering and exiting at each point in two or three lanes. It does not look safe to go there. From the air, it must look like Daytona Speedway, or worse, the ATL Motor Speedway (if you ain’t from Atlanta, that’s the big round-about around the city.)

To navigate this one, you don’t look. You point your car, go, and hope for the best. Its a lot like Luke Skywalker learning to fight the light saber training droid – you cover your eyes and feel your way through it. Really, the first time I negotiated it without getting a horn, finger, or fig (for another post), I think I said outloud: “I did it, I felt the force!”

But, for mosts round-abouts, just a glance ’round and a quick tap of the breaks before going is sufficient. When it goes right, its like a dance. Each partner taking the next step, no hesitation, just move with the rhythm. (And, assume you are next, unless someone else beats you to it.)

Oswald Chambers talks about obedience on March 25 in My Utmost (if you don’t have a devo alongside your Bible, this is the one, hands down, to get.) He says, “Sometimes there is nothing to obey, the only thing to do is to maintain a vital connection with Jesus Christ, to see that nothing interferes with that.” Our main obedience is to choose to stay connected. Stay plugged in. Don’t disconnect from His love and ways in order to connect to something less.

Some days, it may be a little chaotic with a lot of decisions and noise coming in and out of the intersection. You may be navigating a lot of traffic – options and choices relating to work, family, health, relationships, all relating to your calling before God, and all intersecting at once. You may, perhaps, need to pull over for a moment. But, you may need to pause at the round-about for a brief prayer, then move forward trusting the God will direct, give wisdom, and take you through it all.

Most days, its the simple process of staying connected and moving forward. Spend that all-important quality time seeking His face in worship and His heart for strength and wisdom. Then, head out for a day of life with Him. Each round-about just requires a quick tap of the breaks, a short prayer for his wisdom, and taking the next step in the dance. Two great theologs, Henri Nouwen and Garth Brooks, remind us that life is a dance we are invited to join. And who wants to sit out when the dance is on?

The Message, a lively Bible translation by Petersen, suggests that each day is a gift for us to enjoy in a spirited interaction with God and His Word. Its not a dirge-like drudgery based on “have-to’s,” but an intoxicating, sometimes risky, dance filled with “get-to’s.” The Apostle urges the Thessalonians, “We ask you—urge is more like it—that you keep on doing what we told you to do to please God, not in a dogged religious plod, but in a living, spirited dance.”

So, today, stay connected and enter the round-abouts in your day boldly, confident that God is leading and will give you the timing, the wisdom, and the strength of heart to go through. But what if I miss a cue, or take a wrong step? Here’s something we’ve learned in Italy… there’s always another round-about to help us get back on track.

Enjoying the Dance – Rick

Notes From Italia: The Best Ever Italian Meal

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7:07 p.m. Sunday, November 30, 2008 We are in Torre Pellice in the Alps of Italy looking for an “appartemente” to move into near the end of December and we worshiped at Chiesa Cristiana Evangelica here in Torre this morning. Our plans were to return to the office kitchen after worship and stir up some pasta… but one of the elders at church invited us to his wife’s parent’s home for lunch. We, for this trip includes me, Susan, Rachael, Anna (our OM-Italia graphics guru/fellow language student) and Ashlyn who is a friend, a fellow lingua Italiana student, and a Dutchie (see note from August.) She and our crew have had some great spiritual conversations, and she and God are having a pretty neat conversation, too. And, she has never had a Italian meal with a real Italian family. (She asked me to fish around at church and see if we could get invited, for the record.) So, Hugo and Rosa have us over for lunch. For starters, do you have three or four hours in one stretch that you can devote to one meal???! And for the atmosphere… you need a great kitchen, a big casual kitchen table, and it helps to have a garden and an orchard in back. Hugo has a vineyard nearby, also. Here is the typical Italian meal — the bread, the wine (his vineyard) and the bottled water are on the table the whole time. First round (primo) is plates of veggies, olives, pickles, etc, and plates of sliced meats all around. Second round (secundo) is pasta, this time lasagna with all kinds of great stuff inside. Then, more pasta. Third round (terza) is cooked meats, maybe some more veggies and salads. By this time, you are two hours into the meal, perhaps more! Fruits and sweets follow (dolce), this time apples and tangarines. Yes, the apples came from his orchard. Follow with seconds of anything left in the kitchen. Cap it all with caffe’ Italiano all around. The best part of the meal? Oh, you might say the sweets, or the pasta, or maybe the vino rosso. But I’ll vote everytime for the conversation, the relationships, the laughter, the storytelling. An incredible experience. And a dying art in our world. To spend four hours around the table taking life to another level together. Early in the give-and-take, Rosa made it clear (to me, especially) “non parlate Inglese niente!”– so it all happened (for the most part) like it is supposed to in Italy. In Italiano. Hugo came to Christ out of Jehovah’s Witness, because someone shared time and words with him. Rosa said yes to Jesus from a Catholic background because Hugo wouldn’t quit reading the Bible to her. Her daughter and son-in-law? Both believers serving lovingly in a local chiesa. And our Dutchie friend perhaps saw a little more of Jesus living through his people… At least once a week, this could get to be a habit. Rosa invited me to come over every week. But just for caffe… but if life is shared over the caffe, I’m in! Signor Ricardo

Notes from Italia – Finding Our Way

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I got lost for the first time in Italy today. A momentary panic and then I realized the town I’m in now is only about 9,000 people. How many side streets and alleys can it have? Ninety minutes later I spot an internet cafe I’d seen 87 minutes before, and I paused… just down the sidewalk was the Esso station our team had gassed up at last year. (If you know Ken Berkey, you can ask how many Americans it takes to work an Italian gas pump — nine, but only because that’s how many were in the van at the time.)

At least the Esso station was familiar territory and I was back at our temporary flat in five minutes. (For math experts, that means I turned an eight minute walk into ninety-five.)

I have heard a lot about comfort zones in the past few months as we have prepared for missions in Italy. It doesn’t take a nine hour flight to Europe to shake your comfort zone, however. It could be a ninety second conversation with someone you don’t know who needs truth.
Ciao,
Your monolingual friend, Rick

Points Along the Journey – Answering the #1 Question

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I can’t describe the feelings Susan and I get when we receive some sort of connection from a friend. A card, a SKYPE call, an email, a facebook post or note — each time I see in our box downstairs something other than a “publicita'” from the local grocer, or a little red number indicating someone may have written on my wall, I get a certain lift inside or a fresh burst of energy. So, thank you, wonderful friends, who have written, mailed, called, or some other way let us know you are there, praying for us and remembering us.

The most popular question lately has been a variation of “So, how’s the language coming?” There are ways to answer this that sound great, and not so great. Compared to August a year ago, I have come a long, long way from only reciting 1 to 12 and the primary colors. I can count upwards of a thousand now, and know “blu” can be “azurre” or “celeste.”

I can sit in church and understand, when I concentrate, about 60-70% of what goes on, and I don’t break out in a cold sweat when I am at a cash register or restaurant. I am able to negotiate my way around the piazza market on Fridays and when I lead a Bible study, I occasionally break out in Italian, and understand more than 80% up close one-on-one. The not-so-great part is, I am still far from conversational (after a few sentences, I get stuck) and it takes a huge act of will to concentrate on understanding and responding for more than an hour or two. Classes help; conversations help more; being in an Italian Small Group study (I am leading the new men’s study – or “Man Study” as one calls it – at church) is the real gift God has provided.

Our “lingua Italiana” instructor asks us occasionally to write about things in our life. This week, she asked us to write about a famous landmark or statue in America. I, in one of my weirder moments, bypassed stone mountains, and presidential monuments, and chose one that is perhaps more famous than any of those. Below, by popular request, is the Italian version (corrected by the teacher, as I really have trouble matching prepositions and articles for some reason.) If you have trouble figuring it out, there is always http://www.freetranslation.com.

“Vicino ad Atlanta, c’e’ un monumento famoso in tutto il mondo. Che e’ alto quasi quindici metri e si trova alla destra della strada inportante nel’ villagio di Marietta di fronte all’ ristorante famose per i panini di cotoletta. Il colore del monumento e’ bianco e rosso. Si chiama Il Pollo Grande.”

Ciao from your monumentally serious friend in Italy!

Fruit Sweet

Creating an Extraordinary Life, Studies in Listening to God

Who doesn’t want joy in his or her life? Or fulfillment? Perhaps even a sense of effectiveness? For one who longs for things of the Spirit, maybe a sense of rightness before God?  An unlikely place to find answers is along the rows of grapevines.  But Jesus did just that with his best friends one day.  He was near the end of his time physically on the planet (he would experience the worst death, and then conquer same death, in literally hours) and, sensing the tenseness in this followers due to a sense of the climactic in his ministry, took them for a stroll… through a vineyard.

He took them back to some really basic ideas in order to assure them life as they knew it was not really tottering on the brink of disaster.  The basics of being with God is a good place to return if tottering is in one’s life. Maybe some of what Jesus said can be seen as A-B-C’s…

A – Abide. Not really a word we use these days, but it means to live within the space of something.  Italiano is “abitare” and includes things like flats, houses, etc.  We really don’t stay in one place very long these days.  My wife told me that, since we have been married (22 years ago) we have lived in sixteen different “homes!”  We move a lot.  Perhaps, this is an important “basic” for us all.  God is bigger than where we live, or what we call home.  And though we may move from house, to flat, from city to country, from one continent or time zone to another — God is bigger, and He is there.  Find your home in God. Abide in Him. Abide in His love.

B – Befriend. This one did not translate well into Italiano.  Perhaps it means make friends, be faithful as a friend, keep friends close.  Jesus put it like this: love one another just like I have loved you.  Share life like I have shared my life with you.  When we live in His love, His love comes out in our lives, and spills into our friendships.  If friendships are hard for you, make sure you are first living in Christ.  Then, step out of the zone of the familiar and risk the first steps of making friends. Here’s a cliche – friendship is spelled t-i-m-e.  Quaint, but true.

C – Carry. He said at the end of his vineyard lesson that he would not leave his friends (and by extension, his friends today) alone.  God is not just Jesus; He is also Spirit.  And the best thing Jesus could do was leave, so He could send the Spirit.  He would carry to His followers the remembrance and assurance of who he is; and he would give his friends the right words to say so others could find God.

Abiding includes what the ancients, and generations of seekers call, Disciplines of the Faith. Prayer, worship, Scripture study, fasting, meditation, quiet time, etc.  But abiding is more than a brief time with one of these disciplines.  It is an all day, here-I-am-listening-and-honoring attitude.

We can get fully engaged in projects and our desktops, virtual and otherwise, can get cluttered and out of control busy. Remember that people come first before the projects.  Make points in your day that are all about others. Befriend others instead of taking on extra alone-time work.

And if you are in transition in your spiritual life, seeking wisdom on how to proceed and how to seek God.  Perhaps you have counted years of walking with God, but it’s a new time for you to take it all deeper and fresh.  Read the Gospel of John chapter 15 all the way through a few times.  Especially the verses about pruning and cutting away. As I write this, all around my village of Torre Pellice are snipping away all the branches from the main trunk, and getting ready for the year’s harvest. Cutting off what would be in the way of what really matters.  Sounds painful, I know, but necessary to make room for the best life you’ll ever have.  Give him back something that has stood in the way of your love for him. Honor God by giving him more space in your life.  The results? Joy, fulfillment, effectiveness, and a sense of rightness before God.

Ciao — for the Journey!